John Mayer

December 25, 2014

I did not choose most of what my life has been like.  I have written before about a lot of it, including my relationship problems.

I think that my first real, adult relationship is going to be a few things for me.  I think  that half of what I'll be feeling will be love for the person, and the other half will be whatever I'll feel because of having a boyfriend that I'm in love with.  There are people who marry their first adult boyfriends; many don't.

I think you should think about whether there's someone else whom you want to marry, before you decide to pursue me without hesitation.  We are not getting younger.

Copyright L. Kochman, December 25, 2014 @ 9:16 p.m.