I don't want to date at this time.

December 7, 2014

When I do want to date, I won't choose someone who is ambiguous about the issues that are important to me.

I'll want my own relationship.  I don't want to be one of several women to whom he is romantically attached.  Ben Affleck, don't get divorced.  You are the only person who I think might do something like that, and I'm telling you not to do it. 

I won't choose someone who is significantly younger or significantly older than I am.  

I won't choose someone who is habitually mean to me or to others.

I won't choose someone who has excessively low or excessively high self-esteem.

I won't choose someone whose sense of humor is impaired or chronically immature.

I'll choose someone who supports me about the SICK, SADISTIC, ILLEGAL videos of me in the way that I want to be supported.  I won't choose someone who tries to make me feel or behave about that horrible, lifelong issue the way that he thinks I should feel or behave.

I won't choose someone who is dishonest, evasive, or manipulative.

I won't choose someone who has an addiction problem.

I won't choose someone who has a problem with me paying my own way.  That means cheap dates until such time as I obtain gainful employment that will let me pay for less cheap dates.

Copyright L. Kochman, December 7, 2014 @ 4:40 p.m./addition @ 4:43 p.m.